Do you think your cat is purring because she is glad to see you? Not always! Cats are great masters of “secret” messages that can be understood by carefully observing their behavior. Read the full article to know 12 signs that your cat is secretly angry with you.
signs that your cat is secretly angry with you
She looks at you from afar.
It can be difficult to say whether your cat keeps you at a distance because it is upset, or it avoids you because it is still a cat, and cats are rather strange creatures. But if your furry girlfriend actively avoids you, while usually she’s playful or keeps out much farther than usual, this may be a sign that she’s scared or excited, says Michael Rub, an expert on cat behavior and an operations manager for the American National Society protect cats.
Cats keep their distance when they are confused by something, say, a sudden loud voice, fast movements, or even an unfamiliar smell on your jacket, he explains. What to do? Give her the opportunity to be alone, she will return when she calms down and is ready to talk with you.
She growls at you.
Think only dogs growl? Then you never saw a crazy cat. According to Rub, cats can make a variety of sounds that signal their displeasure, including a hoarse growl.
If your pet voices his feelings, start by giving him space, and then slowly do things that create a positive relationship, such as feeding, playing with toys, grooming, or quiet, soothing speech, says, Rub.
She gives you a “clue” with a look.
Which one? If you are the owner of a cat, you don’t even need to ask, cats are real masters to show their feelings with their eyes. “Cats are especially alarmed when their routine is broken, for example if you are late for feeding or in the summer,” said Katz Young, Ph.D. Author of The One Minute Cat Manager. The solution is obvious: plan your life around your feline “master” and be more careful about the feeding regimen. Basically, cats feel calm and confident with a regular, predictable schedule, so try to stick to it, she says.
She doesn’t like you when you pack your bags.
Cats can determine when you are about to leave them. They can act like they don’t care what you do, but when you start collecting luggage. You can notice how your cat frowns and looks at you, says Young. “It’s easy to fix: leave a T-shirt or any odorless garment on the bed,” she says. “And make sure your pet gives them extra attention while you’re away.” Everything will be fine when you return home.
She avoids her favorite toy.
According to Young, toys can be a major source of irritation for a cat. “They were bored with the same toys. So it’s important to mix and reposition them, creating the illusion of renewal, or to acquire new ones,” she explains. “Cats need a lot of incentive because they are natural hunters and love the game of chasing and catching prey.”
She hides under the sofa and refuses to go out.
The cat’s desire to hide from you is one of the first signs that your cat is unhappy or frightened by you or the situation. Resist the urge to try to pull it out. Because concealment is a protective reflex, and if you make it come out before it is ready to communicate. The cat can become aggressive, explains Amy Shojai.
She poops on your pillow.
The rare owner of the cat did not find such a “gift” in his bed. “Feline excrement on your bed is a typical sign of feline anxiety about separation,” says Shojai.
Although it may seem like she is angry with you, she actually uses her own scent as a way to deal with her anxiety. “The fact that they defecate on the bed is a kind of“ compliment, ”because it reminds the cat of the smell of a beloved master,” she adds.
She bites your hand when you caress her.
Has your cat ever asked you for petting and then bit or scratched your hand? Seja says that this is called “affectionate aggression,” and that’s perfectly normal (even though it’s annoying).
“This bite of the“ leave me alone ”type does not mean at all that the cat has gone crazy, but only that she wants to control the relationship, and your caresses that go on for too long will unnerve her,” she explains.
Her tail twitches.
One of the first “subtle” signs that your cat is angry with you is when you see its lowered tail, waving rapidly back and forth from side to side, says Emily Parker, an expert on cat behavior.
“Whenever you see a tail twitch, stop doing what you are doing at the moment with respect to the cat, as it upsets her, give her some space and leave her for some time until she calms down” she explains.
She urinates on your clean laundry.
Your cat has not had anything like this since he was a kitten, and now all of a sudden he urinates all over the house? This is a sure sign that he is upset. Says Linda Campbell, a specialist in veterinary technology and behavior at the Missouri Humane Society.
This most often happens on soft surfaces such as piles of linen, sofas, or your bed, she says. It is important to take care of this problem as early as possible before it becomes a habit. Talk to the veterinarian if you cannot change the situation yourself and you need help to stop such processes, she adds.
She refuses her favorite food.
Campbell says that when a cat is upset, she can eat less, they usually, or completely refuse to eat. She claims that often this is a reaction to a new or unfamiliar situation. A change in routine, or a large home event, for example, the birth of a new baby.
However, watch this carefully, as this can also be a sign of illness. If she will not eat for more than one or two days, take her to the veterinarian. This one may be one of the signs of cancer.
A cat purrs because she is happy, right? Not always! Purring also means anxiety, fear, or even aggression. If you keep stroking a purring cat even after he has other signs of irritation. You can provoke him to paw or bite, Campbell says.